Women please stop giving up the coochie so quick! You are a treasure and should be treated as one. Women complain endlessly about not being able to find a good man. Of course not! Some of you ladies jump in the sack so damn fast, we don’t get your name until the deed is done. No man wants to “wife” a woman that he can bang on the first date! He assumes you do that with every man you meet. Can you blame him? I’ve never respected a woman that gives it up on the first date ESPECIALLY if she tells me condoms are optional! Yea whatever. If you give it up on the first date, you’ve been labeled as an easy lay – even if your not.

The woman I respected the most in my life made me wait a month before we had sex. She respected herself and made me respect her as well. I knew at that point that I wasn’t just another notch in the bedpost. It’s important to some of us men. Some guys don’t give a damn how nasty some chicks are, but the good ones do.

Respect yourself. Make him wait. If he doesn’t want to wait then let his ass go. That’s one more headache and heartache you don’t have to deal with – or doctor visit you don’t have to plan.

Now if you just need a quickie, do what you’ve got to do. Don’t go backwards, though. Some women go and hook up with exes because the sex was banging. C’mon ladies, there’s obviously a reason you’re not with him. Let it go!

Whether you believe it or not, you’re a gift to a man. you complete him. And no matter what we say or how much we complain…we need you. Can’t exist without you. So cut out the fat – all those bum-ass men you associate with and look for quality. When “Mr. Quality” comes along, you will have so much more to offer him. Accept only the best.

All we ever have in this life is our self-respect and self-worth. Keeps yours.